Comments on Busted Plumbing: When Mother Nature Kicks You Right In the Ovaries!: Mixed Feelings (A Husband's Perspective)

I came across your blog through SITS. Wow this is ...

2010-04-14T07:46:37.602-07:00

I came across your blog through SITS. Wow this is definitely deep!! It's different to hear it from a mans perspective.

I hope you & your hubby are able to have one soon :) Best wishes..

I found your blog through TSIS. Very refreshing to...

2010-02-03T00:38:29.015-07:00

I found your blog through TSIS. Very refreshing to hear from the guy's perspective. Almost lost my marriage because I truely believed my husband didn't care when we lost our baby. Obviously he did, very much, but showed it in a a different way. May God bless your life and love with a baby.

Nice!

2009-12-12T23:37:18.200-07:00

Nice!

Wow this is a great post. It's lovely hearing ...

2009-12-07T22:46:55.026-07:00

Wow this is a great post. It's lovely hearing it from a man's perspective. Knowing that men DO feel the same way. I'm sorry it took me so long to read it.

love and peace to you both. :]

2009-12-07T18:17:41.898-07:00

love and peace to you both. :]

There are no words to offer you for comfort, so I ...

2009-12-01T19:07:21.569-07:00

There are no words to offer you for comfort, so I will simply say you are in my hearts and prayers.

This hits home...in a very sensitive spot. You are...

2009-12-01T19:01:35.546-07:00

This hits home...in a very sensitive spot. You are a better person than I am/was. During our struggle with infertility it seemed that EVERYONE was pregnant. And at times it was very near to the truth. I chickened out of baby showers, made every excuse in the book to not visit friends and their new babies. I almost didn't attend my own sister's shower....

I sent cards and

I have been there... 15 years ago... ended up with...

2009-12-01T16:08:26.469-07:00

I have been there... 15 years ago... ended up with two high risk successes, and two adoptions (and sadly, two miscarriages). Meaning four kids in all. Your time will come one way or another. If only as the best uncle ever.

Ditto! It hurts even more to see a baby of someon...

2009-12-01T14:53:21.460-07:00

Ditto! It hurts even more to see a baby of someone you care about. Seeing them in the store didn't bother me as much as when I held my nephew for the first time. He was about a month old, and was born the same day I had my D&C for my 4th loss. It was heartbreaking, but yet so joyful. Luckily my husbands sister is amazing, and as I cried holding him, she came and hugged me and cried

Yeah, I can relate to this. What is worse is wh...

2009-12-01T14:51:15.790-07:00

Yeah, I can relate to this.

What is worse is when the husband is holding a baby and some smartarse will say something like "Watch out he's getting broody." And all you can think is 'we've both been broody since long before the parents met, let alone got pregnant and had a kid.'

Sigh.

This is beautifully written. I think it is easy fo...

2009-12-01T13:36:47.383-07:00

This is beautifully written. I think it is easy for the wives to get so caught up in our own sadness and grief that we forget how much this TTC BS hurts our husbands too. I think I'll hug my husband a little tighter tonight after reading this. Thank you for reminding me.

Hi! I just wanted to say. I gave you an award on m...

2009-12-01T13:31:42.533-07:00

Hi! I just wanted to say. I gave you an award on my blog.
http://ahmymarriedlife.blogspot.com/

I know exactly what you mean. I held my 2 mo old ...

2009-12-01T11:36:38.587-07:00

I know exactly what you mean. I held my 2 mo old niece (from my husbands side) for the first time this weekend. Right before I picked her up I could feel the tears sting my eyes, but as soon as I had her it reaffirmed just how much I want one. And I'm going to be a great mom, too! It makes it harder to see her (my niece) because she should have been 1 month older than my own little one.

I found your blog not long ago. I'm glad I did...

2009-12-01T10:50:10.162-07:00

I found your blog not long ago. I'm glad I did. I'm glad to hear couples going through the same emotions that my husband and I are going through. Good luck!

Deb: Thanks for finding us, I'm so glad you ca...

2009-12-01T09:58:23.591-07:00

Deb: Thanks for finding us, I'm so glad you came by! Thanks for the recommendations, every little bit helps, eh? Thanks for the follows, looking forward to getting to know you!

TucsonCordovas: MWAH!

Thanks Laura and Flour :-) (On behalf of Adam too, lol). I would really really like to see that fertility dance, lol.

Oh, I so, so hope you guys get one. Really, really...

2009-12-01T09:47:50.427-07:00

Oh, I so, so hope you guys get one. Really, really I do. I'm sending all my good fertility vibes your way. I'll even do a fertility dance. :)

Beautifully written, Adam. I hope and pray that y...

2009-12-01T08:49:21.315-07:00

Beautifully written, Adam. I hope and pray that you and Kate get one...or many...soon. Hang in there!

There aren't words....we love you guys!!! And...

2009-12-01T08:06:08.866-07:00

There aren't words....we love you guys!!! And yes, you ARE awesome, and so is your wife!!!!

I found my way here through SITS and feel quite at...

2009-12-01T07:52:20.604-07:00

I found my way here through SITS and feel quite at home :) I'm sorry to hear you are having such a struggle - doesn't seem fair that two folks who want to love a child so badly should have to go through so much.

I wish I could remember the address of a blog I saw dealing with nutritional preparation for pregnancy - maybe it could help - I'm pretty sure it was using